Calm down and get over it.
Can't stand it, is out; can make it, stands out.
there is a line in desperate Housewives:
"the more unlucky you are, the more you have to pull yourself together and get through it quietly, and you will find out how strong you really are."
since ancient times, people who have achieved great things have all been able to calm down and make a fortune in silence.
the more anxious you are, the more likely you are to make mistakes.
A person can become great only if he is calm and calm when something happens.
the more difficult it is, the more calm it is.
Zeng Guofan once said, "when things are defeated quickly, they are delayed by thinking."
Matsushita Konosuke is the founder of Japan's Panasonic. He came from a poor background and received a primary school education, but he turned Panasonic into Japan's number one electrical appliance company.
he used 100 yen to set up Panasonic, which makes sockets.
in 1929, when the economic crisis came, most companies chose to lay off a large number of employees.
but Matsushita Konosuke said to his subordinates, "We don't lay off staff. If we do, how can employees make a living?"
so Panasonic decided to stop production and everyone went out to sell.
it is in this situation of mutual help that employees and the company tide over the difficulties together, but earn more than before.
sometimes in difficult circumstances, if you persevere, there will be a change for the better.
there is a young man named Saburo Kanda. He is very excellent. He came to Panasonic for an interview. There were hundreds of people in total. The competition was very fierce.
after a week of screening, the admission list came out. Matsushita Konosuke found that there was no Kanda Saburo's name on the list, so he immediately asked the personnel to check it out.
it turned out that it was the personnel who left out the name of Saburo Kanda, so he immediately sent a supplementary letter of admission.
but she received a shocking news: Saburo Kanda chose to commit suicide because he did not receive the admission letter.
Matsushita Konosuke sighed, "what a pity. If only he could calm down and hold on a little longer."
Su Shi once wrote in the Theory of retention:
"in ancient times, people who made great achievements not only had extraordinary talents, but also had perseverance."
only when you calm down can you become a great player.
calm down and don't let your emotions beat you
Gui Guzi wrote: "when the spirit is fixed, the mind is calm, and when the mind is fixed, things are round."
if a person can calm down, he will not mess himself up and get things done slowly.
host Bai Yansong, once a famous mouth of CCTV, will be seen in major programs.
at the age of 32, he had a low mood, low ratings and online public opinion, and he couldn't find the meaning to stick to it.
so he made a change and asked the leader to suspend his job for a year and have a good rest.
instead of confronting his emotions, he chose to deal with it calmly, took a step back and quietly returned to life.
A year later, he made a comeback and worked with the team to produce many programs close to the people's livelihood, which were more popular with the common people.
the really strong are not afraid of temporary depression, their goal is the long-term future.
if the time is not right, calm down, let go, and wait for the next opportunity.
can handle it, get through it
Wang Shi once said:
"never be luckier than others. I never thought I was luckier than others. I may have more perseverance than them.
when it is most difficult, they can't make it any longer. I can endure one or two more seconds. "
the gap between people lies in whether they can withstand the pressure and tide over the difficulties.
actress Li Zi had an unhappy childhood. Her father suffered from meningitis and deafness, and the whole family relied on her mother to do odd jobs for a living.
in order to lighten the burden, Li Zi performed on the stage as a child child.
later she recalled:
"at that time, the house was very small and there was no independent bathroom, so I went to the public toilet. But he was often bullied. Later, my father built a bathroom by the kitchen, and he could smell the toilet when he was eating. "
because of her childhood experience, Li Zi has a kind of tenacity in her character. She never gives up, never complains, and grit her teeth to carry any difficulties.
later, Li Zi became popular, and his life was finally a little better, but he did not expect his brother to be involved in a car accident, and the scene was very thrilling.
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when it is most difficult, they can't make it any longer. I can endure one or two more seconds. "
the gap between people lies in whether they can withstand the pressure and tide over the difficulties.
actress Li Zi had an unhappy childhood. Her father suffered from meningitis and deafness, and the whole family relied on her mother to do odd jobs for a living.
in order to lighten the burden, Li Zi performed on the stage as a child child.
later she recalled:
"at that time, the house was very small and there was no independent bathroom, so I went to the public toilet. But he was often bullied. Later, my father built a bathroom by the kitchen, and he could smell the toilet when he was eating. "
because of her childhood experience, Li Zi has a kind of tenacity in her character. She never gives up, never complains, and grit her teeth to carry any difficulties.
later, Li Zi became popular, and his life was finally a little better, but he did not expect his brother to be involved in a car accident, and the scene was very thrilling.
as an actress, she became the CEO of the company, and then studied financial management and company management.
in the case that no one is optimistic, Li Zi listed the company in 2017, and the business is getting bigger and bigger.
insiders commented on Li Zi: "she is even more able to endure hardships than ordinary people. She can only rely on herself."
the road of life is uncertain, suspense ups and downs, and no one knows whether the next stop will be sunny or stormy.
but in the face of suffering, only when we can bear it and get through it, can we first become the light that illuminates the darkness, and then we can overcome all the sufferings and usher in a twists and turns and a bright tomorrow.
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Zeng Guofan once said:
"if you get through this, you can make less progress. If you get sleepy again and work hard again, you will prosper and work hard one day. "
No one's life is plain sailing, growing in gains and losses, and striving in success and defeat..
can't stand it, he's out; he can stand it, he stands out.
, may you live in every moment of the moment, calm down, eat hard food, and do hard battles.