Educating your children well is the most important career in your life.

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A good teacher may influence a child for three or five years, but a good parent is enough to change a child's life.

Don't think that the good or bad of your children is the teacher's problem. Only when parents teach their children well can teachers add icing on the cake.

No matter how good the teacher is and how good the school is, no one can replace parents for their children.

People's Daily once published an article telling parents:

educating your children well is not just a matter for teachers, but also the most important career in your life.

parents are responsible, children are excellent

in the wonderful work, Yan Rujing once said something that is impressive:

"parents are the only audience in the first half of their children's life, and children are the only audience in the second half of their parents' lives."

in the process of growing up, parents and children are the most important companions for each other.

however, many parents are often afraid of trouble, trying to save trouble and hand their children over to school.

push the problem to the teacher.

Teachers are just people who preach, teach karma, teach knowledge, but not habits, reason, but not personality.

good habits, interest in reading, strong will, lofty personality and long-term happiness are necessary for children to grow up.

all of these require parents to help their children develop little by little at home.

Don't wait for the child to have a problem, wait for the teacher to reflect the situation, wait until the child is drifting away from you, and then regret it.

what we fear most in educating children is "trying to save trouble", let alone "afraid of trouble".

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parents have to work harder and more attentively than their children in order to use your "not afraid of trouble" in exchange for their children's "real excellence".

parents are strict, children are self-disciplined

Education is fair, and almost all enviable "other people's children" are bought by parents with real efforts and tireless patience.

when parents give priority to educating their children, their children's life is capable of leaving no regrets.

like Yang Chenyu, who got full marks in both subjects in the college entrance examination, breaking Guangxi's record for the highest score since the resumption of the college entrance examination.

his excellence is inseparable from his mother's strict education from beginning to end.

when her son was very young, she taught him the habit of keeping an eye on him all the time.

afraid of disturbing the child, she put down her cell phone, gave up entertainment and devoted herself to her son.

"the process of supervision is painful, but after it is finalized, the road ahead will be easy."

every "other person's child" is the result of "other people's parents" sacrificing innumerable entertainment, rest, companionship and strict education.

without the strictness and efforts of parents, there will be no self-discipline and self-improvement of children.

parents should be bitter before sweet, and their children should be bitter before sweet.

sometimes it is hard-hearted to "force" the child to know how good the child is.

it is not a bad thing for parents to be strict. The growth of children needs the sunshine of praise and the rain of criticism.

parents discipline, children are excellent

it is recorded in ancient times: "Shun ploughed the land, the cow did not walk the way, and Shun whip did not blame the cow."

Why did Shun whip himself instead of the cow when the cow didn't plough the land well?

because the cow does not go right, people do not guide it well, it does not know it, but people know how to guide it.

thus it is deduced that the responsibility for children's disobedience lies with parents, and excellent children must be disciplined.

in the process of growing up, every child will go through a more or less wayward stage.

but the younger the child is, the more malleable he is. When his parents teach him the rules, he will know how to advance and retreat. When his parents teach him kindness, he will understand human feelings. When his parents teach him etiquette, he will know the general idea.

if parents do not compromise, shield or connive at their children's problems, their children will not become naughty and capricious.

teach children not to do whatever they want, let alone procrastinate again and again. Once the "expiration date" has passed, parents have become insignificant to their children.

if you discipline your child strictly today, he will have the ability to realize his dream tomorrow.

parents' true love for their children is that I love you, but I will never indulge you.

parents set an example, children benefit

Chen Baosheng said:

"parents must first do what they want their children to do, and parents cannot do what they want their children not to do in the first place."

parents who love learning will not raise children who hate learning, parents who never learn, and parents who will not raise positive children.

Confucius said: "his body is upright, although he does not order it, he obeys it." His body is not upright, although it is ordered but not obeyed. "

if parents always "stay on the phone", they have silently conveyed to their children: I think playing with mobile phones is more important than learning.

parents who are addicted to mobile phones not only set a bad example for their children, but also destroy the family's good learning atmosphere and give their children an excuse not to study.

Children are born imitators and are good at imitating their parents' every move, no matter the good side or the bad side.

educate your children. If you educate them with actions, they will follow suit. If you educate them with empty words, it will only lead to quarrels.

instead of preaching to the children, it is better to set a good example for the children and influence them with their own actions.

ChildrenWhen I was young, I saw role models from my parents and learned independence.

when he grows up, he will take the initiative to pursue his own ideals and find his own happiness.

teaching by example and setting an example is the most meaningful way of education.

parents work hard, children make progress

it is often said that today's education requires a "hard father".

what exactly do you want to spell?

fighting for family wealth? Fight for status? Or work hard or get a degree?

neither. The real competition between children is the parents' concept of education.

49-year-old Zhu Tengqiang successfully passed the professional examination in the year of his destiny and became a hot search.

the only reason why he took the exam was to chat with his daughter who was studying law.

Zhu Tengqiang's daughter is a senior at the School of Law at Central South University of Economics and Law. In order to have a common topic with his daughter, he decided to take the judicial examination by himself.

seeing her father working so hard, her daughter is also full of confidence in the legal examination.

at present, she has studied for a master's degree in law at Peking University.

what is even more admirable is that the whole family of Zhu is high achiever, and Mama Zhu has taken the CPA as a computer major.

few children are born geniuses, and their parents are parents for the first time. In this journey of love, only through mutual achievement can they continue to grow.

in the process of accompanying their children in their studies, parents also need to make continuous progress, strive to keep up with their children's pace, and be good guides for their children.

truly far-sighted parents know how to invest in themselves and grow up with their children.