Leave your seat. Who are you?

I have heard a fable. In the desert, a camel toiled through the whole piece of sand. There is an ant, lying on the camel, without any effort, also came. The camel was tall, sturdy and shiny, and everyone he met could not help looking up and praising it. The ant said proudly, " You see, when everyone sees me, they have to pay attention to me. " The camel glanced at the ant and said: "when you were on me, I had no idea that what people thought highly of you was not you, but where you were. Don't take yourself too seriously, who do you think you are? " Don't take yourself too seriously. You may be nothing if you leave your seat. The most important thing in life is to see yourself clearly. Don't overestimate yourself. Many people have the illusion that they can't do without one, and no one can do without him. In fact, the world will turn the same without anyone, and no one really can't do without each other. The greatest misfortune of being a man is to overestimate your position in the hearts of others. The English dramatist George Bernard Shaw told a story of his own. Walking in the streets of Moscow one day, I met a smart and beautiful little girl, so I chatted with her for a long time. At the end, Bernard Shaw said to the little girl, "go back and tell your mother that Mr. Bernard Shaw has been playing with you all afternoon." To his surprise, the little girl immediately replied: "go back and tell your mother that Mary has been playing with you all afternoon." Later, every time George Bernard Shaw told this story, he would say, "Man, you must not take yourself too seriously." If you overestimate your status in the hearts of others, you are bound to be disappointed. My friend Momo told a story of his own. A few years ago, as the editor-in-chief of an account, he was close to many of his peers. There is a boss Xu often told him, you are very capable, and often invite him to share, give all the scenery and face, and even promised to one day unhappy here, always come to see him. Later, because of the dispute between Momo and the company, Momo was snubbed by the company and fought openly and secretly with the boss many times, but Mr. Xu was unmoved. Finally, Momo couldn't help it and jokingly asked, "Boss Xu, how about I work in your company?" Boss Xu put up his smiling face and said, "there are no job openings in our company for the time being. If necessary, I will let you know." This incident hit Momo very hard and made her understand: The communication of the scene between people is only the intersection of interests, and when the benefits are done, they will break up. When you are in an important position, people around you always praise you. When you lose this status, they will ignore you. Don't overestimate your position in others. When others praise you, all they care about is their own needs. As Yang Jiang said: When you are in a high position, all you see is flashy sex dreams. When you are humble, you have a chance to see the truth of the world. Smart people always "despise" themselves. The stupidest thing about being a man is to overestimate your position in the eyes of others. People who are really good always don't take themselves seriously. John is the president of a company, but he never has a high posture. Once, there was a boy Billy who was seriously ill. His last wish was to be his own boss and run the company. John Hearing the news, I invited the boy to his own company and asked him to sit in the office and experience the feeling of being president. And work as an assistant to the boy and handle the company's business until the end of the day. Because of this attitude, let John Has won the support of many people, even if the company is facing a crisis, it is also out of danger with the support. The greatest wisdom of being a man is to be in a high position and don't take yourself too seriously. The more capable a person is, the less he or she takes himself seriously, then others will take you seriously. One year, at the beginning of the term at Peking University, a freshman stopped an old man at the door and thought he was the janitor and asked him to take care of his luggage. When the students came back from their work, they saw that my uncle was still waiting for him at the door. It was not until the next day that I learned that the janitor was Ji Xianlin, vice president of Peking University and a famous scholar connecting China and the West. There is a sentence in the "three bodies": Weakness and ignorance are not obstacles to survival, arrogance is. Once a person feels superior and superior to others, he is not far from bad luck. The low water becomes the sea, and the low man becomes the king. Only when there are others in one's heart can one win the respect of others and go further. It is most important to see yourself clearly. Never think too highly of yourself or others. The most important thing in life is to see yourself clearly. When I was in college, I had a classmate Xiao A, who came from a rural family and always showed inferiority complex. Originally, I did very well in all subjects, but I felt that I couldn't do anything. The teacher recommended her to give a speech in the courtyard, but she quickly refused, saying that she was in a bad state of mind and refused to try. Later, when she had another chance, the teacher asked her to serve as a study committee. she refused again, believing that she could not do a good job. In the end, when the teacher had another chance, she stopped asking her. Yu Minhong said: " A person with low self-esteem must be even worse than an arrogant person. " Because the arrogant person may still be able to seize the opportunity in his life that is not his, but the person with low self-esteem will always lose the opportunity that belongs to him. Everyone is not useless, self-abased people only see their own shortcomings, but do not see their own strengths. The more a person has nothing, the more he thinks highly of himself. To think highly of yourself is to recognize your position, do not think highly of yourself, and do not improperly belittle yourself. Sociologist Charles Horton Cooley mentioned a theory of "I in the mirror". That is, people's behavior depends to a large extent on their understanding of themselves. Some people always think too low of themselves, and no matter how good the opportunity comes, they miss it for lack of self-confidence. There are also people who have a high understanding of themselves and look down on the people around them, which leads to the dissatisfaction of the people around them. The highest wisdom in life is to recognize yourself. Have a clear understanding of yourself, neither humble nor arrogant, not bothered by the evaluation of others, not worried about your own shortcomings. Psychologist Adler wrote in his masterpiece inferiority complex and Transcendence: The only correct way to transcend inferiority is to associate your values with social values. youBy solving problems for this society, you increase your value by cooperating with others, by caring for others, and then by increasing your value. Let yourself Feel that I am very valuable in this society, I have made a lot of contributions in this society, there are many people like me, so as to reduce the sense of inferiority. Recognize their own strength, in the right position, give play to their own value, in order to support their own life. It is said in "Fan Si Xun" that only modesty benefits. No matter how capable, no matter how high the position, there is no one else in the eyes, bossing others around, is doomed to go for a long time. When you are alive, you are self-aware. Recognize their own position, see their own ability, explore the nature of human nature. If you are in a high position, you don't think highly of yourself; when you are at a low ebb, you never look down on yourself. To be a man, he is not proud, self-abased, humble and low-key. Get along with others, lower your attitude; gain honor and know how to share the scenery with others. Always have humility in your heart, and the whole world will be open to you. To share with everyone.

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