The best family style: smell the smell of books, hear quiet, see calmly

come on Everyone in Confucian style Bing Xin once said: "I don't know what home is, but boredom and sorrow all melt and disappear here." Yes, when a family is together, it has nothing to do with more money, less money, big house and small room. Because home is not a house, but a harbor of the soul, you can take off all the camouflage, do not be confused, do not see the wind and frost, even if the cold winter outside the door is like snow, the door is also warm spring breeze. The best feng shui in a home is to smell the smell of books, hear it quiet, and see it calmly. Smell the smell of books Su Shi said in Sanhuai Tang Ming: "honest and honest family has been handed down for a long time, and poetry and books have been handed down from generation to generation." Only by being loyal and reading can a family develop for a long time. In history, there are no more talented people in a family than the three fathers and sons of the Su family: Su Kui, Su Shi and Su Zhe. The most admirable one should be Su Kui, who trained two talents and left many classic works for future generations. At that time, Su Huan, as a father, was also worried to death. His two sons were mischievous and did not like to read books. They were forced to do so, and they were afraid of being counterproductive. As a result, he decided to set an example to educate his children, start with motivation, actively guide them, and make them interested in learning and turn harm into benefit. At the beginning, Su Fu hid her books in the study every day, secretly, and when the children saw them, she hid the books and seriously warned them not to enter the study. This thoroughly aroused the curiosity of the two children, and we wanted to see it if you didn't let us see it. So the two children tried their best to steal books from the study. In this way, the Su brothers also found the pleasure of reading and gradually took reading as a habit, creating a Gemini miracle in cultural history, and the Su family has been passed on for seven generations. As Yao Wentian said in the Qing Dynasty: "for hundreds of years in the world, the old home is nothing more than accumulating virtue, and the first good thing in the world is reading." For a family, the best heirloom is not to leave the children a house, a car, or money, but to teach them to read. You know, family education is with the child for life, and the parents are the child's first teacher, but also the child's lifelong mentor, a reading family, the child will benefit from life. Read more, at first we may be ordinary, but not ignorant, maybe busy, but not boring. Because it can not only broaden our horizons and increase our knowledge, but also empathize with great people, cultivate sentiment, learn the wisdom of great people and restrain ignorance. There are no books for nothing in life, and every page counts. Although it does not make us rich immediately, it allows us to teach our children to find the answers to life and discover the truth, goodness and beauty of life through the knowledge in the books. I hear silence. In the Book of morality, there is a saying: "who can be turbid in order to be quiet and clear? Who can be comfortable with Xu Sheng? " A glass of turbid water, put still, will reach the degree of clarity, the family is also, every day precipitation, more communication, not noisy, will not be so irritable. Zeng Guofan, the "first perfect man", took seven exams before he won a scholar, while Zeng Guofan's family never scolded him and always told him softly and supported him as always. When he was in school, although his father was strict, he would communicate with him, asking him to take his time, not to worry, not to understand the last sentence, not to read the next sentence, not to finish this book, not to continue the next book. Even after Zeng Guofan failed the exam in Beijing, he ran out of money. The penniless Zeng Guofan also asked his father's friend to borrow 120 silver and bought a set of 23 histories. You know, at that time, with the income of his father as a teacher, it took two years without food or drink before it could be completed. The father did not scold his son for this "bad behavior", but said calmly, "if you read these books carefully, I will pay your debts." Since then, Zeng Guofan worked hard to become a senior official in Beijing. No matter how big problems Zeng Guofan encountered in his life, he learned to communicate well and use it quietly, so that the Zeng family spread for more than 200 years and extended to the eighth generation, without a "black sheep." It is said that communication is the source of world peace. Indeed, some families, often because of poor communication, often quarrel over trivial matters, making the house restless. On the other hand, a family that can communicate is often quiet and calm. Because they understand that harmony is the way for a family to prosper. There is no need to raise your voice, because you can hear and speak softly, but show your self-cultivation and quality. Do not need to be high-spirited, because can be seen, walk gently, but contains a kind of demeanor, contains a kind of charm. Home is a harbor, not too big, quiet is good, although not gorgeous, but prosperous. Take it easy to see Some people say, "Children will never listen to adults, but they will certainly imitate them." Yes, as a parent, your words and deeds will exert an imperceptible influence on your children. When you have an emotional breakdown, you are used to being reasonable, or you lose your temper at will. If you hold your phone and browse videos every day, lazy and unmotivated, how can you ask your child to study hard and be a hard-working person? you know, what kind of person you are, what kind of person your child is! In the modern history of our country, Liang Qichao, the most famous figure, is a politician, thinker, and writer, but what he is most powerful is not having these halos, but an excellent father. In the area of educating his children, he has his own experience, especially for the children's scores, which are not good enough, and Liang Qichao never gets angry. Once Liang Sichuang won the 16th place in the exam, and he was particularly sad. when Liang Qichao knew about it, he said very calmly: "Chuang Chuang's grades are already very good. It doesn't matter if he fails the exam. Let's take our time." Even when the children choose their majors, Liang Qichao is calm and calm and respects the wishes of the children very much. Unlike today's parents, they only think about whether to make money and whether they can find a good job. Paying close attention to the children's grades, I wish I could learn math, chemistry and chemistry in the first grade of primary school. It is precisely because of this calm and calm that Liang Qichao's nine children were able to play according to their own wishes, and finally there were three academicians, all of whom were outstanding. In the final analysis, family education is the best for a person.Education. In the face of life, perhaps the child is clumsy at the beginning, but as long as we are leisurely and do not have too many worries, we will create a good space for children to grow up. You know, no one can protect their children from wind and rain for a lifetime. A good parent is to take a leisurely job, let the children learn to face the failures in life calmly, and control the ups and downs of life easily. The best feng shui in a home is to be calm and calm, so that children can live as they like in their own time zone.

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